Sometimes or they act like they don't understand and you're the bad guy when you treat them like they treated you all along. It was no big deal while they were doing it (because "that's just how they are" or "they were just trying to make so and so happy"), but you're just mean when give them they same treatment that they have given you the entire time you've known them!
Envious, jealous, insecure "women" who reflect their insecurities, fears, or just generalized discontent onto others through hate, isolation, and non acceptance are the ones I pray for. Let go of the way you perceive yourself and how you feel about people because its making you treat people horribly and to be honest makes you look ignorant, rude and heartless. I hope you find peace and contentment so you can pass that on instead of unreasonable hatred.
Never stop spreading your kindness. – How you make others feel about themselves, says a whole lot about you. So treat people right. Kindness IS a gift you can afford to give. - via: http://www.marcandangel.com/2014/04/16/25-things-you-should-never-stop-doing-for-yourself/
via | it's always necessary / it still hurts though, esp when it is family who do not believe you are really sick. i was on disability 3 months after my application. but even that great miracle does not convince them. that really hurts to the core of my being, i see that pain as another disease i have to cope with, i don't think i will ever recover from this wound.