Making yourself a priority is not selfish it's an act of self-love. When you are real and honest it may piss some people off but frankly that's their problem. Getting to know yourself and learning to trust your intuition is so important. You learn what you can and should give to others and you also learn when to walk away.
Shakti is love. It leads us to love through its fertile uninhibited force, dissolving all the beliefs that stand in the way of wild joy, the expression of love untrammeled by convention. It says yes to love, and connects all life forms, once you have allowed it to flow through you unchecked, and to take you without reservation. The Power of Shakti: 18 Pathways to Ignite the Energy of the Divine Woman