From experience, I know this t be very true. If we are honest with ourself, we are going to have inner conflict. If we don't wear a mask with another person, we are going to have conflict. Conflict is a necessary component to growth and learning; it's necessary for change; it's necessary for a deeper connection. The only way to avoid conflict is to hide your true self. In doing so, you'll always feel alone, no matter how easy a relationship is.
This is huge, and worth remembering as I get married next year... https://weddingmusicproject.bandcamp.com/album/bridal-chorus-sheet-music-here-comes-the-bride-wedding-march-gentle-piano-short-long-versions
Happy relationships are hard to create and maintain, but they are the most rewarding thing we can have in our lives. They are better than power and money because they give us something those things can’t give us, support, companionship, and value.
Yes but you MUST understand for you and your Mistress to be a complete team YOU MUST GET YOUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHT cause YOU have wasted enough time you can't have it both ways so it's time to stop fucking playing games and get real!