What is Your Spirit Animal? The Wolf:You are most close to your kids/parents, and you wish that you could be close as possible to them, even if they have lives of their own. You believe in the family network.Your home is where your family is, but letting go is one of the toughest things you'll have to do. You can't check on them everyday, or freak out if they're not around. Just relax, know that everything is OK.