avoid people who: 1. mess with your head 2. intentionally and repeatedly do and say things that they know upset you. 3. expect you to prioritize them but refuse to prioritize you. 4. can't and won't apologize sincerely. 5. act like the victim when confronted with their abusive behavior.
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