Oml. I see this entirely TOO much!... Don't put yourself in a situation knowing what its gonna be and then get upset when mf's dont feel bad for you, especially if you stepped on or hurt anyone else to get yourself in that situation and then expect THEM to be the ones to be concerned about what you're going through
When we don't take responsibility, we actively choose not to take care of each other. Instead, we perpetuate mutually destructive relationship patterns. Read more about defensiveness today on The Gottman Relationship Blog.