"Remember that the reason you're doing this is to make YOUR life better" not your kids lives as child support is meant for. Quit buying your new boy toy new trucks, new truck tires, a riding lawnmower, a rowing machine, endless numbers of smokers and grills...I can go on and on and on and on
A chaotic life is not for me! I have changed a LOT in the past year and those who just can't keep up, well, they just can't keep up! Happiness is a choice, peace of mind comes when you make better choices!