Self love is so important. Because when you're all alone and it's 3 in the morning and you're lying on the floor crying and shaking and wishing it all would end, who's going to be there for you? You. You have to pick yourself up and find the strength to carry on. At the end of the day, you're all you've got.
I like being alone. I have control over my own shit. Therefore in order to win me over your presence has to feel better than my solitude. You're not competing with another person, you're competing with my comfort zones.
People say those who fight the most belong together. I believe the more you fight is when you need to learn to let go. Who wants to live life fighting? Set an example for our kids (your kids) to stop the cycle. Learn to let go when nothing changes. Life is to precious to waste it on petty stuff. Be with someone whom you can live life with less fighting/drama.. Trust me... It's such a huge relief even if it means being alone for while. Know your worth ❤️