Life is about choices. It's not always "if it's meant to be it will be" ...we choose our own destiny with every decision we make. If SOMEONE doesn't choose you then you are not their destiny and life will not make it happen for you.
No one ever said living a Godly life was going to be easy. However if we allow GOD with his strength to help us we can do it. For me this is the one road through Jesus Christ so that I may come to the FATHER (GOD). Its going to be WORTH everything.