Selfishness controls most, even me. For God to change all it takes is me giving the wheel back to God, and trust that he knows where he is going. That he will still be there when I need him, and then I will start looking at others before I look at myself
The enemy will try to break you, steal your joy, shake your confidence, destroy your faith, and make you feel hopeless but you don't need to listen to one single lie of his. You are created with a purpose. You are loved. You are victorious with Christ. Hold on to these truths and never forget that the enemy is a liar and his lies have no power in your life because you are a child of God.