beauty is in the way you hold yourself. it's how you treat people. the way you love. it's self acceptance. beauty is in your soul. if you think you're any more of a person because your face is nice, you need a reality check.
You’ve really got to stop worrying so much about what others do and think. I may find happiness in my writing, but that doesn’t mean that you need to be a writer to be happy. Shut out all the judgmental and well-meaning voices, and listen to yourself only for a while. Give others this same space to be themselves. -- read: http://www.marcandangel.com/2015/07/08/7-things-you-gain-when-you-let-go-of-control/
This isn't meaning material things, it means 'real' things needed for a loving, treasured and respectful relationship. Deeds, qualities, thoughts and characteristics of a decent and mature man who has a loving and good heart.