I've learned that through dark times, it is best not to ask "why me" or "why does this happen". Even though life hit you hard and throw you off your feet, get up, keep moving. Keep living. Things will change.
::cs lewis:: - Somehow this seems to come from life, not literature. He was a sincere Christian, I think? Reminds me how Dad used to say this would be a better world if Christians were more Christ-like. Just sayin'.