One of the biggest signs and traits of narcissism is Hoovering. This technique usually appears after months, even years of no contact. Narcissists will try every trick in the book to get you back into the codependent cycle.

One of the biggest signs and traits of narcissism is Hoovering. This technique usually appears after months, even years of no contact. Narcissists will try every trick in the book to get you back into the codependent cycle.

IT'S NOT YOU...IT WAS NEVER YOU...you did nothing wrong and a whole lot right. It's that narcissists go through a cycle in their relationships.... idealize (love bombing), devalue and abuse, then discard....again and again. You completed the cycle, so the N was done with you...but will likely try to come back (hoovering) time and time again, so they can repeat the cycle. Just remember, if the N is treating you good again, it's just the first part of the narcissistic cycle.

IT'S NOT YOU...IT WAS NEVER YOU...you did nothing wrong and a whole lot right. It's that narcissists go through a cycle in their relationships.... idealize (love bombing), devalue and abuse, then discard....again and again. You completed the cycle, so the N was done with you...but will likely try to come back (hoovering) time and time again, so they can repeat the cycle. Just remember, if the N is treating you good again, it's just the first part of the narcissistic cycle.

Narcissistic cycle of Abuse NPD. I tried warning others of this. Once a narcissist has discarded it's victim, another MUST replace the addiction. Just wondering which family member is next on the list and praying for them.

Narcissistic cycle of Abuse NPD. I tried warning others of this. Once a narcissist has discarded it's victim, another MUST replace the addiction. Just wondering which family member is next on the list and praying for them.

narcissistic abuse cycle--these people NEVER apologize because they sincerely believe that they are NEVER wrong :P .

narcissistic abuse cycle--these people NEVER apologize because they sincerely believe that they are NEVER wrong :P .

Recovery from Emotionally Abusive Relationships Education about Narcissists, Sociopaths, and other Toxic People. Don't be a victim, don't just survive, Thrive LET THIS BOARD BE YOUR AHA MOMENT, PLEASE SHARE!!!

Recovery from Emotionally Abusive Relationships Education about Narcissists, Sociopaths, and other Toxic People. Don't be a victim, don't just survive, Thrive LET THIS BOARD BE YOUR AHA MOMENT, PLEASE SHARE!!!

abuse, emotional abuse, verbal abuse, narcissism, narcissistic spouse, narc wife, married to a narcissist, planning divorce, domestic violence, divorce

abuse, emotional abuse, verbal abuse, narcissism, narcissistic spouse, narc wife, married to a narcissist, planning divorce, domestic violence, divorce

Quote on abuse: Survivors of any and all abuse become very good at anticipating moods of others, looks, actions, all of it in an effort to survive. Believing that if we can be agreeable, be compliant and loving, do things how they want, that we will be safe. This becomes our way of live." - Darlene Ouimet. www.HealthyPlace.com

Quote on abuse: Survivors of any and all abuse become very good at anticipating moods of others, looks, actions, all of it in an effort to survive. Believing that if we can be agreeable, be compliant and loving, do things how they want, that we will be safe. This becomes our way of live." - Darlene Ouimet. www.HealthyPlace.com

Learn more about the Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse and why it keeps happening over and over in some people's personal and professional lives.

Learn more about the Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse and why it keeps happening over and over in some people's personal and professional lives.

Hell hath no fury or contempt as a narcissist you dare to disagree with, tell they’re wrong, or embarrass.   Rage is a destructive action. It is intended to hurt, actually break someone or somethin...

The Narcissistic Rage Cycle

Hell hath no fury or contempt as a narcissist you dare to disagree with, tell they’re wrong, or embarrass. Rage is a destructive action. It is intended to hurt, actually break someone or somethin...

NEVER accountable for his actions. He has his followers that don't let him be accountable too!!  POOR JDS!!! The victim!!

NEVER accountable for his actions. He has his followers that don't let him be accountable too!! POOR JDS!!! The victim!!

Narcissists Need Constant Ego Boosting...  this is so true.  They can't accept  responsibility for their actions.   http://www.lahuera.com/narcissists-need-constant-ego-boosting/

Narcissists Need Constant Ego Boosting... this is so true. They can't accept responsibility for their actions. http://www.lahuera.com/narcissists-need-constant-ego-boosting/

They make us feel like our strengths are actually our weaknesses.   The cycle-A recovery from narcissistic sociopath relationship abuse

They make us feel like our strengths are actually our weaknesses. The cycle-A recovery from narcissistic sociopath relationship abuse

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