Understand this. Know when u are the one handing it out and the other person isn't taking it. Don't flip it around. Be aware of your own dishing first. For every action-There will be an equal and opposite reaction.
This is a good plan. ~ I love God & my God is a God of love not hate! He loves the sinner but hates the sin. We as Christians should do the same... by standing for what is right but having the decency to do our level best to love those who do not agree with us into the kingdom of God :)