Flickering Flame-less Candles- Ok we have established I am a dork, but I love these candles I just set a timer and they go on and off and I can put them in places I would never put an open flame. If you position them right you really can't tell that they are not "real".
Luminara Flameless Flicker Candle-These are the most amazing flameless candles. They smell, feel, and look just like real candles. The timer feature is amazing too! A little pricey but well worth the money.