Another analogy that I have real experience wth: I like to play poker. I'm good at it. I sit at a table full of men and they look at you and snicker. It's a mans game. All I have to do is make it appear I know nothing about it. After a few hands, after they think I'm stupid, I kick their asses. Yes, a lot of it is the luck (or bad luck) of what you are dealt. But even when you are dealt a bad hand, you can win.
If someone doesn't see your beauty, you don't need to be around them. They don't deserve you. Let your sparkle shine, and when someone sees that beauty and loves you for who you are, that's who you should be around. You are important, you are precious. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. ❤️