One of the biggest hypocrites I know actually posted this! She gives unwillingly from time to time but expects to reap big rewards for it. If you were giving out of love maybe you would reap what you sow.
The way to rock it today? Is to stand on The Rock & love larger than any heart of stone. "Do everything in love." (1Cor.16:14) You cannot do it all -- *but what matters is that you do what you can all with love.*