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The truth is that the more intimately you know someone the more clearly youll see their flaws. Thats just the way it is. This is why marriages fail why children are abandoned why friendships dont last. You might think you love someone until you see the way they act when theyre out of money or under pressure or hungry for goodness sake. Love is something different. Love is choosing to serve someone and be with someone in spite of their filthy heart. Love is patient and kind love is…

from The Huffington Post

Learn to See, Accept Your Perfectly Imperfect Child

You just don't give up at the end of the day its always because we love each other :) to my cheese :)


Only once could I say for certain I completely hopelessly have been in love. Only once and I've never stopped loving you. Every single day my heart will never ever be whole with you in my life.


That's why everything is so hard. I feel too much, or not at all, I care too much, or not at all. Seeing the world through your heart instead of your eyes just makes you look crazy to everyone who just sees with their eyes.


How is it that you have forgotten me?... some days I wish I could forget too because the pain and your silence is so hard to bear...some days I can't help but remember different thoughts all through the day that tear at my heart and make my soul bleed and then there are other days where I Want to remember, remember how I fell in love with you and every thought and word to feel the pain So I Never Allow It To Happen Again...Ever... With Anyone.


I remember reading this in an article a long time ago and it really striking a chord. I often hear people say that they would rather have their partner be the one who loves them more. There is some narrative that we believe that says "if I don't love you more than you love me, I'll never get hurt." It's a distorted belief that let's us hold some form of perceived power and control, but has us living and loving from a fear based place. Truth is, you don't walk around with power, you walk…


i do miss you. i miss the us that was .. the us when we first met .. i used to say, "i don't mind letting you wrap me around your little finger because i know you won't hurt me". i still don't think you hurt me intentionally. i just think you decided you didn't love me any more - why? you never told me. i don't know if i stifled you.. again, you never told me - that bit was unfair. but at the core, i love you.