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25 Common Misconceptions of a Narcissist You were good at making it all out to be me who was crazy and I let you because I was in love with a monster who had me wrapped around his finger and tricked into believing only he could love me.

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YOUR ABUSIVE PARTNER DOESN’T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH HIS ANGER; HE HAS A PROBLEM WITH YOUR ANGER. One of the basic human rights he takes away from you is the right to be angry with him. No matter how badly he treats you, he believes that your voice shouldn’t rise and your blood shouldn’t boil. The privilege of rage is reserved for him alone. When your anger does jump out of you—as will happen to any abused woman from time to time—he is likely to try to jam it back down your...

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The worse type of abuse... Parents to children, children to parents, husbands to wives, wives to husbands, teachers to students, students to teachers, a boss to a coworker, a coworker to someone else. In 7 decades I've seen it all....sadly....Mental abuse is worse than physical abuse because the children hear their parents voices long after they have died....

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If you live with a narcissist, get out asap. Nothing ever changes with them. They are abusers by nature and will always justify their behavior in their own mind. They will demean you and isolate you in order to keep their control over you. The longer you are abused, the more difficult it is to get out. You will never win no matter how you cry, beg, try to reason with them, etc..... Don't let this happen to you. Love yourself enough to get out ASAP!!!

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You!!! Labeling again and again and again...I refuse to let you or anyone else get to me and I am living my life my way..I know who I am and I do not need your approval or consent...to bad your not happy with me standing up for myself..get over it!!!

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25 Common Misconceptions of a Narcissist The clarity you gain with hindsight. . Wish I had walked away years ago....

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So what does your N expect? Your N expects you to be perfect. By the way, expectations change by the minute. He expects you to give him endless attention. Then he expects you to leave him alone. He expects you to be a sexual object giving into his every kinky thought. Then he expects you to want zero sex. You must figure out which is which. He expects you to put up with every imaginable verbal insult, silent treatment, rage episode he can dish out. You must never be hurt by...

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