Powerful. You lie to me you lie to your family because they don't know me I'm a big secret yet I'm tripping in your mind because I believed your bullshit. Maybe I should reveal myself, what's the worst case you end it? Well I really don't have got anyway despite you said saying you love me, prove it for once I have the whole time.
Actions speak louder and truer... Believing someones actions above their words will protect you from the wrong people if you pay attention, don't ignore, excuse or rationalize away the duality and follow through with dismissing them when they SHOW you who they really are.