This in every way is wrong. Its the fact that they refuse to acknowledge that the women was raped and then they drawn attention to saying it was her fault that he got HIV+ and saying that women should wear something that lets them know they're HIV+. This is rape culture.
But we must distinguish between religion and spirituality! Religion has been and is guilty of so many abuses that many people are now turned off spirituality itself, which is probably an innate human capacity like language, and which can enrich our lives. We just have to remember that each of us tells our own Story, and no one Story is the Whole Story, the one and ONLY truth. ~~ Esther Essinger