Origin early 19th C. • from Arabic qismah ‘division, portion, lot,’ from ḳasama ‘to divide.’You can think of kismet as your lot in life, or your fate. The word Kismet is of foreign origin and is used in Turkish, Urdu, Hindi and Arabic.
But sometimes the right words are not only listened to but obsessed over for 25 years with rage & vengeance. What a wingnut! All I said was, "There's The Door - *USE IT!* Get over it 25 years later, creep.