My bestest friend & my motto about people. If you choose to ignore what someone is saying & doing that is showing you how they feel about you, likely very clearly, that's your prerogative; however, you don't get to be mad at them later when YOU finally realize they've meant what they've been saying/doing all along. Be smarter & have more self respect than that!

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You’ll be fine. Feeling unsure and lost is part of your path. Don’t avoid it. See what those feelings are showing you and use it. Take a deep breath. You’ll be okay. Even if you don’t feel okay all the time. - Louis C.K.

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So sad that so many women confuse the two. i dont think i would want to be second choice and be made out to be a fool. I wouldnt let someone do that to me

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Sometimes I feel like this. I hope it wasn't true, but sometimes I wonder. It saddens me that I have these thoughts after so many years together.

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I wonder what it feels like to be someones first choice... I use to think this all the time b/c I was the awkward, tall, loud, blunt, a tomboy and never anyone's first choice... and then my now husband pursued me. He chose me. And we're living our happily ever after! Sometimes you have to stop asking what you need to do to change yourself to find someone who will pick you first, and just be you... b/c the more time you spend not being you, the harder it is for your match to find YOU!

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#taurus so true! Worst feeling in the world is feeling used by people you love and care for.

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I honestly don't feel like I am anybody's first choice. Everyone else has their best friends and i'm just me. Why would I be your first choice?

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