This makes me think of my mom. When i have done something and i tried my hardest, she says i cant try my hardest because i have to be perfect. This drives me crazy. I dont like being perfect. I get straight A's and one B? She says im awful. I just feel so pressured to be perfect that i just break because i know im a dissapointment.
Now I don't know if this helps or not, but you are good enough to me. No matter who you are, or what you're like, as long as you're yourself, you're good enough. And not everyone's going to like you, Guess what? that's okay. But when you find those special people who do like you and care about you, it's worth the while.
phobias. i have clinophobia, according to the definitions listed. i think people dont usually quite grasp what a phobia truly is.. often it seems people think its simply a fear, when in actuality its much more than just a small fear..