sounds familiar...only add the fact she wants custody to a) not have to pay child support and/or b) so she can get a child support check. She doesn't care what is in the child's best interests and she never has. For her, it's all about HER needs. Well to me, it's all about THE CHILD'S needs. You don't have to give birth to be a good mom, and giving birth doesn't make you a good mom.