Most of us have no clue what we want to do with our lives. Even after we finish school. Even after we get a job. Even after we’re making money. Between ages 18 and 25, I changed career aspirations more often than I changed my underwear. And even after I had a business, it wasn’t until I was 28 that I clearly defined what I wanted for my life. http://markmanson.net/life-purpose/
You must stand for something. (or you stand for nothing) You can’t be EVERYTHING to everyone. Take a stand. Define YOUR Values. Live by them. Surround yourself with others who will HONOR them. Let the rest go. It may feel like you are playing it safe by living in the neutral zone. However, remember this… when you don’t define what you stand for, decide who you will stand up for, or stand out for something you believe in, you will eventually loose those who TRULY matter and will stand up for…
If we're not living up to our view of 'perfect' in our relationships, we can feel like a bad friend, colleague or partner. You're balancing a lot. Today, release the shame + define what feels *good* > perfect for you.
Lett's define what we mean by "Avoid Pampering." We are NOT talking about love, affection and connection. Giving hugs is not pampering. Giving compliments is not pampering. Validating feelings is not pampering. Pampering is doing things for our children that they are perfectly capable of doing for themselves. The fact is, our children are born with an innate desire to do things for themselves and begin to express that desire around the age of two.
You define what is important to you by what you dedicate your time to.. Its time to dedicate my life for me, my soulmate and my future career for my business once more... My time is valuble and precious to me also :-):-)