7 Keys to Becoming a Classy Woman Traditionally, classy means to be stylish and elegant; respectable and lovely. However, I find the traditional definition and ideas of how to be classy can be slightly limiting, depending on how you interpret it. So let’s re-define classy in a better way: a genuine, feminine and high quality…Read the Rest of the Article →
Zooey Deschanel -- i would only add that also, if you don't want to dress girly or pretty or wear makeup, pantyhose, whatever, that's ok, too! the only things people should even think about deducing from our wardrobe is our taste in fashion, and even that's iffy.
There is beauty & strength in your sexuality - embrace it Don't exploit it Be sexy, but be able to put a sentence together. Tap into your sexuality but don't manipulate with it. Own it, but do not define your self-worth with it. Love your feminine prowess but do not find your complete validation within it. Our female energy is unique to us- treasure it, nurture it, and stay in control of your domain.
"You're too masculine to be a girl, and too feminine to be a boy." "Why can't I just be both?" OR NEITHER? [click on this image to find a short clip and analysis of a gender category in Samoan culture that explodes the gender binary] Source: Trans* Toons (http://transtoons.tumblr.com/post/44249001748/i-know-that-i-don-t-have-to-categorize-myself)