aka...living a lie. Only the true narcissist hates the truth. No normal, rational person can ignore the truth. Listen to the way people frame conversations and you'll figure it out. It may take awhile to put the pieces together, but never doubt your gut.
Those who deceive hide their deceit by playing the victim! They do this to make us feel guilty for suspecting their dishonesty! By making us feel guilty they manipulate in order to cover tracks! Don't be deceived !