Thirty Healing Affirmations for Daughters of Toxic Mothers, written by Rayne Wolfe, originally posted on the blog 8 Women Dream, but taken from Randi G. Fine at http://randigfine.com/30-healing-affirmations-for-daughters-of-toxic-mothers/.
Narcissistic mothers teach their daughters that love is not unconditional, that it is given only when they behave in accordance with maternal expectations and whims. As adults, these daughters have difficulty overcoming feelings of inadequacy, disappointment, emotional emptiness, and sadness.
A narcissist mother is emotionally immature, the child has to take care of her. The needs of the narcissist mother come first and are like the needs of a hungry baby bird. "Feed me, feed me" the narcissist mother cries to its child, instead of caring for its child's needs, the mother is like a vampire feeding on the child.