Saying it was a "mistake" is just a cop out, you knew exactly what you were doing every single time you did it. It took planning, arranging and then the process of going to there and going thru with it. It was constantly choosing to text and sext her for hours at a time. To say it was a mistake is pure BS because you chose to do it, lie about it and try to hide it for such a long time. It wasn't a mistake it was intentional.