It's been 4 years since you've seen her. You haven't paid child support like a real man would, you don't ask how she's doing. You abandoned her & neglecting her since you stopped showing up to court dates 4 years ago. Stop blaming your problems on everyone else. You & your wife are the reason you are in the situation you are in.
The number of child support payments for the right amount since he has took ownership/plowing is def. this. But hey let's file an extension to keep running it catches up with your buddy it's called back CS:)
Child support is an important part of the divorce process. Both parents carry the responsibility to financially support their children, and that responsibility does not cease to exist after a divorce. In California, child support payments are driven by statutory guidelines. To be sure that your judgment is fair, it is important to have an experienced Riverside child support lawyer on your side who understands the process and the law.
Each parent is equally responsible for providing for the financial needs of his or her child. But the court cannot enforce this obligation until it makes an order for support. When parents separate, a parent must ask the court to make an order establishing parentage (paternity) and also ask the court to make an order for child support. http://www.courts.ca.gov/selfhelp-support.htm