Margaret Fuller was a very responsible person. Transcendentalists do not deny what they do, they do what is right. When her dad died, her family didn't have much money so she took responsibility and was a teacher to help the education of her family.
light a few candles ... and burn a few bridges .... not everyone deserves to be a part of your journey. (not sure that I agree with the wording DESERVE ...but overall the basic sentiment is sound - I would change deserve to NEED)