SO TRUE!!!! This is exactly it! I personaly believe that sometimes breaking up with someone is harder than getting broken up with because you have to deal with the pain of knowing you destroyed someone..
"If you break someone's heart and they still talk to you with the same excitement and respect, believe me they really love you." It's really dumb it takes breaking up to realize that though. And they don't deserve that.
then, she began to breathe, and live, and every moment took her to a place where goodbyes were hard to come by. She was in love, but not in love with someone or something, she was in love with her life. And for the first time, in a long time, everything was inspiring. R. M. Drake