If a person doesn’t want to take responsibility for the consequences of their actions, they may try to blame others. Don’t accept blame or try to fix things for them when you’ve done nothing wrong. They need to learn that if they want different outcomes, they will have to make different choices.
Always wanting to blame other people for your failures. And telling people I'm afraid of you, won't answer your calls/texts?? Really bitch? Keep telling those lies if you need to sleep at night. We both know your weak, insecure ass doesn't have the balls to call/text me ever again because you really don't want to know the truth about how many other girls there were. You just want to pretend and play victim.
Do you know how sometimes you have a bad day, and it may cause you to be a bit short with your kid or partner? And then, later, you go to them and say: I am sorry I was short with you, I was just worried/tired/busy/other, … We all do that, right? Well, not the toxic person. They live in a blissful world where nothing is ever their responsibility. When bad things happen, it is because the world is against them! When they are raging abuse at you, it is because YOU made them angry.