You are in charge of you. Gen Patton said: Never tell anybody how to do something, tell them what you want done and they'll surprise you with their ingenuity. That said: Go out and be you go for what you want, never accept defeat as an option. WIN!
123 Short Positive Quotes That Will Uplift Your Soul Quickly
You should want to find things that motivate you. Things that capture your interest and you feel so passionate about about. Something that brings you way to much joy before you don't get the chance to do it anymore.