I love my son, he's been God's best gift to me. I get along with my ex-wife. Not out of duty, obligation or the act of "being beholden" to her. It's the simple fact that our kid needs both of us even if we are divorced to be the best damn parents to him. It takes a lot of maturity to rise above the past, but we choose to do that for him. Is it popular? Quite honestly I don't care if it is or not.