If you have a choice between me and her, choose her because if you really loved me there wouldn't be a choice.
This should read 'between me and him'. She chose him. "You FORCED me to choose. I didn't want to." I never, ever asked or would ask her to because I loved her and wanted her to be happy. Just another 'excuse' to justify her actions and keep the 'blame my evil daughter' persona going. It's okay -- she has to live with the fact she threw me away.