the toxic person. They live in a blissful world where nothing is ever their responsibility. When bad things happen, it is because the world is against them! When they are raging abuse at you, it is because YOU made them angry.
My ex does this to me. He doesn't understand how I can be single because he's not lived one moment of his life not in a relationship. Yet everything that goes wrong in his life is my fault! God forbid I'm happy on my own.