"Soft words ... harsh words" -Imam Al Ghazali (ra)
This is the absolute truth Imam Al Ghazali / Islam
Imam Al Ghazali (RA)
"The desire of religious people was to become aware of their faults." |Imam al-Ghazali|
Imam al-Ghazali quote
Nothing hurts a good soul and a kind heart more than to live among st people who cannot understand it. -Imam Ali (AS)
"... the tone at times, has a greater impact than the speech." ~ Even our scholars talked about intonation! It's all about the tone of our speech in all relationships :)
ALLAH knows when you're trying and the only thing that counts on the day of judgement is being able to sincerely say, "I tried my best"
It's really that simple. If he has the heart to back bite is he still capable of guiding others?