Yes yes yes!! Oh my gosh the "poor me" act was so incredibly exhausting to deal with. Everyone was always out to get him, he did nothing wrong. ALL his ex's were psycho, abusive skanks etc... Give me a break! The lies were as endless as the ocean is deep
We have a conscience. We can be a little gullible. We extend the benefit of doubt. We're honest. Encountering people who can outright lie and not feel one bit of remorse or sense of responsibility for it, simply ASTONISHES us. We haven't said things about the narcissist that aren't true. We don't need to make up the facts. They are as strange as they are presented. - After Narcissistic Abuse - There is Light, Life & Love
Narcissists Lie - "Your not trusting the narcissist will be turned around to paint the picture of YOU being insecure. You will be accused of being “jealous” / insecure / damaged / broken. All things you’re not – but things the narcissist is. You will begin to believe that you are insecure for not trusting them. You in turn, stop trusting yourself and your own perceptions and rely on someone who is lying to you."
So you lied about what you did, how you felt, who you were, and basically pretended to be a fake person who didn't exist, but you're calling ME "crazy." I wish your bitch knew the truth about EVERYTHING, to this day!
aka...living a lie. Only the true narcissist hates the truth. No normal, rational person can ignore the truth. Listen to the way people frame conversations and you'll figure it out. It may take awhile to put the pieces together, but never doubt your gut. There are some guys in this world who will invent bullcrap about their exes in order to look more appealing. (And women will do this too, guys! Their act is usually the damsel in distress, battered woman act.) Avoid! Period.
out of all your lies ... I can laugh at my stupidity now for believing in you and falling or your lies. When you think of me I hope it makes you proud. It's not every day a person gets to crush someone who was hopelessly in love with them. Years of pain and heartache needlessly inflicted on someone who truly loved you all because you lead them on. Why emotionally destroy someone that way? Congratulations, you are a horrible person, asshole.