Except seriously?? Don't use the first one. Then the kids will expect sweets every time they are supposed to eat something healthy and that defeats the purpose of eating healthily. Also it's a one way ticket to diabetes.
I did this for my wedding, very cute it took a while to come through, I almost forgot about it by the time it came. And I only got a postcard. But I recommend doing this if your a Disney fan like me getting married :)