They lie, they cheat, they steal your joy and suck the life out of you. They lie to cover their lies. I'm not even sure if they truly know what the truth is. We were both married to one. Now life is beautiful!
My ex friend had all 5 of these traits. I will never forgive her for the pain she's put me through to steal my artwork from me and manipulate people into using me the way she did. I hope that one day she'll pay dearly for this and burn in hell.
This was exactly what he did. I thought he was a good listener, I mistook it for interest and a genuine person caring about everything I've been through with exes. I didn't realize he was taking mental notes on the best ways to screw me up further.